Author: jaymathes

  • Luck and the Art of Waiting

    Waiting isn’t exactly the same thing as trusting in something to happen.

    One of my favorite college professors (his name was Jun) once said that luck isn’t being in the right place at the right time, it’s putting yourself in a position to be in the right place at the right time.
    And I believe him. If we’re just talking semantics.
    I actually don’t believe in luck at all, which is why I made my first statement about waiting. I actually think that a better way to describe my professor’s idea of luck is to call it “active waiting”. You see, it’s knowing (or trusting) that something is going to happen if you just keep going for it. You take steps that move you forward, and sometimes, if you’re going the right direction, you’ll hit opportunities that can push you even higher.
    This is in contrast to just plain ol’ “waiting”, which means that you’re sitting on your keister and still expecting something to happen. And you’d be right – something will: you’ll get fat, dumb, anti-productive, and altogether zombified by that glowing box you sit in front of.
    So as for me, I find myself in a season of active waiting. Actually, I can’t remember a time when I haven’t been in this sort of a season. I expect big things to happen and I am actively engaged in trying to make them happen. But I don’t think they’ll happen because of what I do. Does that make sense? Ultimately, I think they’ll happen because they were destined to. (And yes, I do believe in destiny; but not the kind that is most common today, in our culture.)
    It’s a really uncomfortable place to be, but isn’t all of life really uncomfortable anyways? Isn’t it better to actually be able to identify the discomfort and just deal with what you believe to be going on through it all? I think so.
  • Thank You, Thank You, Thank You!

    Thanks to everyone who came out to my record release show just this past Friday night. We packed the place and rocked the house. If you didn’t have a chance to make it up to the merch table, you can still purchase Fundamental online, from my web store. You can get the regular CD, the Limited Edition, hand-printed CD, or the digital download.

    A couple of hours before the concert, I was extremely nervous about how the performance would come off. I definitely felt tense as I performed my first song. I was told, though, that none of that came across. So the night went off without a hitch [mostly], and I was happy to see that I can still draw a crowd in my home town. What’s more, I actually have friends who are willing to support my music by coming out to see me play.
    A fairly recent goal of mine has been to regularly draw crowds of 100+ in DuPage County, and I think I’m moving in that direction – with your help. Please continue to demonstrate your support for what I do by coming out to concerts and buying my records.
    Thank you for keeping this dream alive.
    Photo by: Ashley Hodges // ashleyhodgesphotography.com